October 2025
THEME: "Fears"
Exploring the fears and shadows that shape us — from the doubts we carry to the courage they uncover.
Hotseat Questions
Pick a question from the list below to ask the member next to you, then pass it along.
- When’s the last time you surprised yourself by being braver than expected?
- What’s the fear you’ll look back on and laugh at in ten years?
- What’s a fear you now see as part of your superpower?
- What’s something you’ve done that scared you at first but gave you confidence later?
- What’s the best piece of wisdom you’ve gained about fear?
- What’s the lie you’ve told most often about yourself - and why?
- What part of your personality do you try hardest to hide?
- What’s a truth about you that you rarely admit out loud?
- What’s the hardest truth you’ve had to accept about yourself?
- What’s a time fear made you stronger?
- What’s the fear that has actually protected you in some way?
- What’s a fear you’ve learned to use as motivation instead of a roadblock?
- When was the last time you did something scared - and it worked out beautifully?
- What’s the cost of success you rarely talk about?
- What’s the part of success that secretly scares you?
- What’s a moment you realized fear was actually excitement in disguise?
- What’s the story you tell yourself when you’re doubting yourself?
- What’s a fear you’d secretly love to conquer this year?
- What’s the biggest leap of faith you’ve ever taken despite your doubts?
- What’s a fear that disappears when you’re around the right people?
- What’s something you thought would break you - but actually shaped you?
- What’s a personal “shadow” that ended up teaching you something valuable?
- What’s something you once saw as a weakness that now feels like a strength?
- What’s the fear you’re most grateful for overcoming?
- What’s a time you realized you were braver than the story you’d been telling yourself?
- What’s the best thing that’s ever come from facing something uncomfortable?
- When did fear push you into a completely new chapter of life?
- What’s a fear that turned out to be a doorway to connection?
- What’s a time fear made you more empathetic toward others?
- What’s a doubt you had about yourself that someone else helped you overcome?
- What’s the most freeing realization you’ve had about fear?
- What’s a shadow you carry that actually helps you connect with others?
- What’s something you once hid about yourself but now share openly?
- What’s a fear you’re currently working on softening?
- What’s the bravest thing you’ve done recently?
- What fear have you learned to laugh at?
- When was the last time you ignored every red flag and paid the price?
- What’s a risk you didn’t take because you were scared?
- When’s the last time fear stopped you from doing something important?
- When was the last time your fear turned out to be completely wrong?
- What’s a fear that always reminds you you’re growing?
- What’s the fear you’ve outgrown - and how?
- When was the last time you felt like you were in over your head?
- What’s the fear that shows up every time you level up?
- What’s the worst advice you ever followed out of fear of disappointing someone?
- What’s something you avoid thinking about?
- What’s the thing you’re most scared people will misunderstand about you?
- What’s the fear that has been hardest to let go of?
- What fear drives most of your decisions?
- What’s the fear you’ll probably always have, but you’ve learned to live with?
